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[QUOTE=iknownuts;10244922]Hi people , a little bit about myself .

I am a 22 year old guy , used to be very fat but of decent built now . I usually am able to talk to women . But i have problems sustaining the conversation with them . Unlike my friends who are happily playing around .
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i also like this many year ago
but look at me now - so many girls want to know me
the reason? now i successful property consultant
so maybe u become one too, learn to talk well, earn big $$$, then u also become like one of us

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most importantly is be outgoing, but at the same time also be yourself, because you want the girl to be attracted to the real you and not a fake version.

go learn new things like dance, or art or take up sports.

one important thing is to have substance. What do I mean by substance?
1) knowledge, read up more.
2) passion. Have a passion or a serious hobby, outside of work.

I know many local men are just all about work and chionging. They believe that their job title defines them but actually it makes the ladies feel they have no personality outside of work. This is where the angmoh guy is strong in, because if u have seen them players work their game, they have many interesting things to share and nothing about work.

my 2cents

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maybe those so called hard to get girls are already attached?:D

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The process of courtship & finding a spouse is a natural animal instinct in every living mammal (human included).

The female of all species will only be looking for the Alpha. By society's standards today, and diversification of playing fields, Alphas can emerge in different walks of life.

Understand that superficial/physical attraction scores only 10-15%. Good skin & rippled muscles can only earn adoration, but can't build & maintain relationships.

Understand that in today's society, women are self sufficient, so shelling out expensive gifts won't build & maintain any relationship as well.

Before you even go out to court someone, look in the mirror and ask yourself if you're attracted to yourself:

If the answer is no, what are the traits you dislike about yourself, list them down & start changing.

If the answer is yes, what are the traits you dislike about yourself, list them down & don't forget to display

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Hi TS bro, women like men who are witty, humorous, interesting, confident, charming, gentlemanly, dress well, etc and if she thinks u might be bf material she would like to see enterprising spirit in you, not in the sense that u should be rich n successful now but they want to see u work towards a stable n rewarding career, no woman wants to be stuck in the same situation after 10 years with a guy.

To be able to strike a lasting and meaningful conversation with women, humor n wit involved is not easy... being well read n well traveled is a plus, women will like to and admire men who can teach/share things with them n even teach/advice them on things they have not exp before.

But since u are 22 i guess u might be still in uni or just out in the workforce, well my take is right after grad, the immediately 3-5 years after that should be used to lay the foundation and cornerstones of your career that would follow u for lift, a good n solid head start in the beginning however tough would make things much more easier later in life.

Dating should be relatively lower in your maslow hierarchy of needs now (tho flings/FTs that dont serve to distract u too much is still ok, lol), unless u might someone u really like so much and is so sure about.

Anyway all the best to u, all it takes is a few heartbreaks and rejections to make u a better man for the next woman that comes along.
Cheers!

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Girls must play hard to get so that you cherish them. If they come as and when you call for them, sooner or later you will be having another girlfriend other than her. Anyway at least they did not reject you straightaway, they still flirting with you means you got a chance but they got options.

Anyway even if a girl don't like you but you have been showering attention to her since but one fine day you decided to change target. Even if she don't like you, she will still be jealous.


I'm just few years older than you.. So don't worry about love. Work hard in your life first, girls will come eventually. Don't find a girl just for the sake of finding. Want to bonk, go find FL.

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WOW! this is the first time i have seen someone in forum use this. most of the time i am the one quoting it...

do you happen to be a woman disguised as a man?! :D

anyways, good stuff you have pointed out!

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What works for me is that when i meet the lady, i imagine myself as The Most Interesting Man In The World from Dos Equis. You can Youtube that. And jus talk abt anythimg imaginable..what also helps is that i imagine myself as James Bond..hahaha

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You gotta boost your own confidence.

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be sincere, be tactful