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Would u be mad if u get to know that your wife has history of 2 boyfriends and heard from their sisters that they even travel overseas and stay in hotels, after a year of marriage? ....

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Of coz mad .Before married is ok... after married she still doing that.. knn too much.

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POOR TS....I PITY YOU...DUMP UR WIFE..NOT WORTH keeping...i got 2 females friend who have affairs wth difft men during marriage..one of them even told me,her husband still loves her very much..but then she still have affairs..and one of those men is me..btw,she did say how she wished she can marry 4 husbands..wow!!! wat kind of woman is tat??

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Just dump the wife no point keeping. She will keep doing it.

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Totally can't accept it.

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it happen 1s,u 4give her.
how would u respond if it happen again & again & again ... ?

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If before marriage, I dun see any issue. If after marriage, I think u shld confront her on this rumour. ;)

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Bro don't want to say i guess it is time to sit down and talk to your wife 1 on 1. Rather than seeking revenge or guessing here and there. Last resort PI service <=== Last resort pls cause if it end up really innocent and she know you engage a PI your marriage is comfirm flushing down the toilet bowl.

Good luck bro

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If before you both are together then of cos not angry.

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alamak bro the thread starter already said after a year of marriage,how to accept on this kind of wife?Unless u are telling me they are not doing anything in the hotel room.哪里有猫来不吃鱼的。

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有啊，

熊猫咯

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Guys cheat on their CO.

What makes u think Girls will not cheat on their CO as well? :)

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I think TS meant he found out after 1 year of marriage that his wife did that with 2 bfs before knowing TS....

correct me if i am wrong...

if that is the case, than its not an issue.. cos there is nothing wrong of gg overseas and staying in hotel before knowing u...

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so wats d story behind

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i think TS meant is after a year of marriage he found out about his wife past...but then again that was the past important thing is present...

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well if u were thinking that u married a virgin and she proclaim as one and found out she isnt. i guess you could be angry

but ur expecting your wife to be a demure virgin girl but when the 1st time you poke her no blood come out and u somehow brainwash yourself to think that got blood come out

then found out again that she isnt a virgin and has ex bf and sexual encounter when in ur mind she is a virgin is it her fault or yours?

but if married and she still go around to fool around then i think you should dump her. But even if u dump her alwasy ask yourself why she cheated on you. Even if it is your fault or her fault still dump her because she took a unreturnable path.

what is done is already done no point carry on, just dump.

but 1st u must hire a PI to take photo proof. wait u divorce her and she claim half of ur money and etc. not fair at all.

remember all the people in the world wanting equal standing ground between the 2 gender??

well let me tell you this, nothing is ever equal. even today the balance is alwasy off.
sometimes the girls suffer sometimes the guy suffer.

if ur the 1 suffering you have the right to fix the problem. just dont tip the balance.

the worst thing about this world now is that females is alwasy chanting unfairness
but we guys are never opening chanting it and going public revolution about it.

we guys have to treat ourself better now...

look at all the cases where girl and guy go hotel then girl report rape...ha ha ha....

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well beside getting PI to get evidence, you yourself must be clean.
If you fool outside and your wife smell something long ago and have evidence of you for sometime. dumping her will be quite troublesome.

back to the topic, past is history, who don't have past but how is she behaving now?clean cut with those ex bf of hers? being a good and listening wife? if so then just forget about her past (seriously telling ppl to 4get is easy, when doing is damn hard), if trash out with your wife can hurt or end the relationship. If you have children, must think for the children as can affect them.

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TS,

Sometimes it is better not to know the history , but a lot depend on how u feel abt her ,if u truly love her , the history is not important . U should look forward to the future.

I knew abt my wife colourful history before we get married. She was staying with one of her ex boyfriend for 4 yrs before we get together. Can u imagine what they have done over the 4 yrs together. Don't dig any further , the more u find out, the more u will not like it.

The most important is whether do u still love her ? Think of what happen if she leave u ? I am sure u will find the answer.

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what you need to do is, tell her you are not pleased with what she is doing in a assertive and commanding tone without blowing your top and all these while looking at her str in the eyes. If she trys to say something, lift up your index finger.

pro: super manly and yet cool. (she will delete her hp contacts, burn the handphone and remain yours forver.

con: wrong delivery makes you seem like a pussy.

*Tips from the Dog whisperers. (If it works for the bitches, it works for our bitches)

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Bro Bangster nice one, very funny, can come up with this idea
LoL...... :D

熊猫不知道自己是熊还是猫，嘻嘻嘻嘻…

Cheers:cool:

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doesnt matter that you yourself isnt clean.
in war all is fair.

is this a war ur willing to play fair game not knowing if the other is going to be fair or not?

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Fyi, even with proof she is still entitled to her half cos the fucking family cock kangaroos judges ruling is that causes and alimony is two different matter..

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Depends on how TS found out wife's history.......Maybe he found out from her ex-bf, then it would be the worst scenario to happen!

But, imo some secrets r best left locked up the closet. For me 1 closet is not enuf to lock my cheonging history :D :D

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I also kana before.. cheated by gf. She said went to starcruise with cousins and frenz.. End up I found the pic of she and her "kuay hearh" ( God brother )
doing titanic pose ( hug together ). No point asking my gf, just pass her the pic and walk off like a cowboy walking towards sunset.

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That's the way to do it. You are Cool...... :)

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Thanks bro. Feel sad for a short period, well think back,she did such thing to me, heng arh I didint get married with her.

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Strange I don't even know first time poke means virgin, some studies differ from it

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yea cool dude!

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after reading the replies, really appreciate all the advices.

damn.. in the last few mths, there was no suspicious movement from her, however next mth, she going for a meeting overseas for few days. that's worry me again. but frankly she has been treating me well since married. now i'm just hope that she is not in contact to her ex bf. Can't imagined previously i spent 1 yr to console her after her break up with her ex bf.. esp when she spent more years with her ex bf..than me i had never had any flirt relationships in the past except for one girl that i lost 6 years ago, eversince i spend my life working and not going back to relationship. :(

And really confused and lost. just wish that i hv not hear the rumors at the first place..

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time can only tell whether your wife will carry on the affair...
too often, ppl think that just because secrets are never revealed, then the truth will never be out in the open.
to be honest, destiny has a funny way or revealing the truth eventually and sometimes it does make one think that whether the sky has "eyes".