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Originally Posted by henabi
just one question....................
Do any of you bring them on overseas trip? or even... let's say when they return to Thailand or Vietnam or China...
do you specifically fly over to visit them?
The reason I am asking is because recently I got to know a Viet girl ......................wechat acc and started chatting ever since...
Currently she is back in HCM. Plus I fly to HCM and Hanoi frequently due to Business. My next trip is end of this month... so just wanna find out whether any seniors here do visit them in their hometown???
pls don't flame me... because I rarely visit these places, and this is my first time i met a KTV girl who is willing to be friends
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Bro henabi,
Yes, I hv met girls in Hong Kong n Beijing many times, not in their hometowns. Likewise, they hv come here n to a certain M'sian city (where I hv many relatives n friends).
I don't meet a girl in her hometown unless I can trust her 100%.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by besafe
I remember many years back, I was smitten by a ktv girl. She was caught in a raid and was deported..................She did not asked me for any money, but I did slip some money about $2k into her luggage without her noticing. We continue to meet for a few times over a 3 year period. Eventually, I stopped contacting when she told me she is getting married.
Bro. Be careful going up to meet her in her home town. Choose a neutral city.
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Bro besafe,
You're a very romantic person.
I don't get smitten, I get lustful instantly, I get very primal n animalistic, but I try to mix it w/ some playful energy so that I won't appear too slimy n creepy.
I remember 5 yrs ago, when I had an outing to TAM 1st fl, I was lustful over a very pretty girl. An esteemed bro who was w/ me had this advice: With this one, you must go slow. Get to know her first, after a few months, you may propose BY.
I proposed BY on my third meeting n she accepted haha. Now I propose BY within 60 minutes, sometimes 60 secs, of my first meeting w/ a girl I really like.
The commonly held belief that the more attractive a girl the more time u hv to spend "romancing" her n be "nice" to her, is completely wrong. The more attractive a girl, the sooner u must show ur sexual interests n mojo!
It works even if she is a non-WL. Your body language n voice must be confident, relaxed, masculine n playful.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by justl00king
Bro, can advise why is it not good to meet in her home town?
I too was smitten with a prc and she asked me to go visit her. After consideration, I decided to proceed.
She drove a nice car to come pick me at airport and I stayed at her home. She stays alone in a nice condo. She eventually got married but still requests to meet whenever possible.
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Bro justl00king,
You're another romantic person.
Meeting someone u don't know well in China or Vietnam is risky. Worse if that someone is male...
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by PeteTsang69
thanks...got it
i can see how a real player, thats not me, can intentionally play hard ball giving -ve emotions to win over a gal ...
am too soft, i am intentionally trying only to give +ve emotions to my target ... now need to mixed it up with some -ve ones ...will try it out  |
Bro PeteTsang69,
You're basically a nice guy.
Arousing or evoking negative emotions in a girl, whenever appropriate, will greatly increase her attraction for u.
Girls r repulsed by men who r too nice, too agreeable, too predictable n who try to suck up to them.
Another thing. Be very relaxed n comfortable when you say NO. Be playful, even jovial hahaha.
No to an gift which is too expensive, No to request to drive her to the airport, No to a loan...
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by henabi
Interested to know too... why?
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Bro,
You could be robbed or kidnapped or murdered.
Cheers!
Bro WB