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Originally Posted by localbest
There was an ancient Chinese saying : 先小人，后君子 which means we have to be defensive for ourselves first before we compromise or be friendly.
In another words, certain things have to be made clear to the other party first to avoid disagreement later.
Quote an example one of my friend pick up a freelancer in geylang. After doing the deeds, the FL was given 50 bucks for short time. She was displeasure with the tips that was given to her as she expected 80 bucks.
My friend told her that according to market rate 50 bucks is more than enough. But to the FL, her definition of market rate is different.
As a result both of them quarrelled aggressively until my friend end up give in to her request.
This unpleasant incident could have been avoided if they both have agreed upon the prices before the action begins.
Therefore although being direct in making clear first may seems abit unfriendly but however it could avoid misunderstanding or dispute later.
This is just my point of view for sharing.  |
Precisely.
In Singapore, he try that stunt on the cabs here, he'll find himself in the police station, trying to explain his definition of "regular price". Best is to reach a $$ figure that both parties are agreeable with to avoid any possible conflict later on. After all, taxis are there everywhere in Batam. No to your offer? Then next please..
My last reply on this topic.