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Originally Posted by MoeLanYong

TS,

One, you spent too much time managing your company and not enough time managing your home. Time to balance it.

Two, she has a point. If you want your 2 holidays a year and weekend restaurant trips, then you have to put up with the stress it causes her. Her aggression is a by-product of the stress at her work place. Promote her to a tai tai and abandon your lifestyle if you want her docile.

Three, you have only 1 kid, 1 wife and 1 mom to care for. I can't see how a senior manager can't cope financially when most of us have the same or more burden. My point is - take it in your stride. Choose your lifestyle wisely. You can't have your cake and eat it.

Four, a sexless union breeds contempt. You have to somehow find a way to have sex with her. Perhaps you have lost the desire. Perhaps she has. You managed to get her panty off back in those days in spite of her finding it dirty, didn't you? Why not now? Without that sexual intimacy, it is not surprising she is hostile.

Five, keeping quiet 95% is avoiding that conversation that needs to be had. Couples need to communicate. Talk, reason, argue. Learn to communicate without quarrelling - it is an acquired skill.

Six, you don't need a lawyer or rights. You just need to learn to manage your marriage. There is no perfect marriage. Just hard work of trying and trying again. Spend time managing your home. not your 250 employees. One will give you happiness.

Cheers

Very well said bro!