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Bro wb

I should had read your post below and maybe I will start on a better footing.

My story goes -

I am a shy guy with little to no self confident. There was this girl who sat next to me in a class. We attended a SFC class. I was always rushing and she will reserved the seat next to me. She asked me if I have time for some food after class and I said yes. After that whatever she ask and I also said yes. I didn't know how to reject her.

By the time, I realized when she refused to answer my messages, I realized I may had spent plenty of my monies

I think I am too shy to deny anything and cannot understand what went wrong till I read your thread.

I think I may not the only one but plenty of guys here trapped in this situation.

Sorry for been long winded.

Thank you for reading.

Originally Posted by warbird

The Power of Disagreeing With Women

by Anti-Dump

It is disastrous to validate a woman's feelings and agree too much with her.

When you first meet a woman, she looks for strength and confidence FIRST. She is basically looking you over. She is not concerned at that time if you support her ideas or feelings.

She wants a man who can handle this world. "Can he take it?" she asks.

In the beginning she is not interested in your relationship skills.

She is interested in observing you in action.


The First Thing She Looks For

How does he handle people?

How does he handle his car breaking down?

Does he pound walls? Does he lose it?

These are the FIRST things she looks for.

In the first three months if you act too agreeable, or validate her feelings too much, she interprets this as being SOFT.

A tough man has a gentle side, but it is crazy to present the soft side in the very beginning.

Why?

Because a woman will think you are ALL SOFT.

You must be confident with a touch of compassion for others.

That's about it for the first year of dating.


Why You Should Disagree with Her

I make it a point to disagree once on each date.

It's a test.

I want to see if she can handle small disagreements.

Many men go along all the way for the first month or two. This is a mistake.

Validating and defending a woman comes later on in the relationship. You get respect only later on.

After one year validating becomes GOLD to a woman.

In the beginning, it is relationship destroying.

I am not saying treat her badly. Please don't post me back saying that.

You give her basic respect. You are friendly, etc.

But you are careful not to support her too much when you first meet. Because she will interpret it as a character flaw called WEAKNESS.

Now all women are going to disagree. But that is the truth.

That's why nice guys get rejected.


Cheers!

Bro WB