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Originally Posted by Penguin23
I wrote my previous piece in context of TS, who is a Malay guy so clearly he has a linguistic advantage over most of us here. Being of the same religion also helps, a lot of Indon maids here are Muslim though there are also many who are Hindu (from Bali) or Christians (Mainly from Sulawesi). For Indons, like Malays if you can speak the language you are more than halfway there.
If you are talking from the context of a local Chinese guy trying to go after an Indon maid, your chances are very much lower. Yes you can just use money to buy your way, and eventually you still get the pussy, but chances are you won't get that kind of emotional connection that makes the fuck extra special.
Unless you can speak better than the "pasar" Malay that most Chinese Singaporeans manage, you won't really understand the mentality of the typical Indon maid. Their lives are mostly boring, lonely and can be quite hard. In that precious off day that they get every week they truly want to feel special and if they find someone they can connect with, you can pretty much do anything you want with them. Money helps, of course but primarily they are looking for an emotional connection, something they can look forward too every weekend.
If you ever had a Malay or Indon gf before you will know what I mean. There's something about that race that makes their sex drive super high, Malay and Indon women need regular servicing much more than the typical local Chinese girl.
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Haha bro, I do very well with maids. Without going into specifics, due to my background I have a strong connection with Indon maids, probably stronger than local malay guys ever can. That's why I did very well with them. A few years back when my game wasn't good enough to attract locals/expats, maids were my bread and butter. I could get 1-2 new maids every week from online no problem, without paying or using money. Like I said I have a big advantage with Indon maids, so even when my game wasn't great I still did super well with them. Yes they have very strong sex drives, I am very familiar with that. These days though, even for a guy like me they are not so easy to get anymore. I can probably get 1-2 new ones a month if I try hard enough. The market has changed, competition in online apps has increased as online apps became more mainstream over the years. It's getting harder in general to get girls online, including maids too. They're still easier than normal girls, but by no means "easy" now.
Btw not trying to argue with you bro, just having a discussion for the sake of TS. I don't think advice like "seek out maids" is very helpful. What does that even mean anyway? Only swipe right on maids and swipe left on all non-maid girls? Can't be, right. Anyway I don't think TS didn't go for maids. My guess is when he swipes, he also swipes right on maids. When you're horny and you have no options, you don't pass on fuckable chicks just because they're maids. Someone comfortable doing commercial sex or going to Orchard Towers would have no problems going for maids. So I think it's reasonable to assume he was going for maids too. But TS doesn't get matches, that means he doesn't get matches even from maids. So IMO his solution is to improve his profile, so that he gets more matches with girls in general, including maids too.
Don't get me wrong, if TS wasn't swiping right on maids before he definitely should. For reasons you mentioned, maids are the low hanging fruits for him and for most guys. But I think likely he's already doing that and still not getting results.