"The Rashomon effect (or phenomenon) is the effect of the subjectivity of perception on recollection, by which observers of an event are able to produce substantially different but equally plausible accounts of it.
It is named for Akira Kurosawa's film Rashomon, in which a crime witnessed by four individuals is described in four mutually contradictory ways."
What has this effect got to do w/ commercial sex n SBF? Plenty. There r often contrasting n even contradictory FRs for the same FL. If the gal is from an OKT, bros may suspect that many of the glowing FRs r fabrications or hv been greatly embellished. Perhaps this is the M.O. of some dishonest OKTs n their clones. But many honest OKTs, no doubt unwitting victims of the effect, hv been wrongly accused as well.
But we shall limit urselves only to those truthful n seemingly unbiased FRs. Even if we take into account the fact that "one man's meat is another man's poison," we r still left w/ some very contrasting experiences n FRs for the same gal. I believe honest n observant bros, when receiving the exact same service from the same FL, can perceive vastly different experiences n hence the contrasting FRs.
A case in point is the FRs re Li Wen, a PRC whom I'm trying to help:
http://www.sbf-sg.social/welcome...ing-prc-5.html
LW's FRs hv been mixed at best n contradictory at worst: Some very good, some so-so n some very bad.
Yesterday I received a PM from a bro who just met up w/ LW: "While she is nice to talk to, her attitude sucks."
I realise that one man's meat is...but I believe the Rashomon effect could be partially responsible here.
Due largely to this effect, our perception of n reaction to essentially the same event could differ widely. This would automatically result in our dissimilar "body language" which in turn may evoke different n divergent responses from the FL. Compounding the complexity of the situation is that our "honest n truthful" recollection of the same event may be subjective, deficient, erroneous or biased.
LW treated me quite well the first time we met, perhaps in part due to my low expectations. It's probable that her initial attitude towards me was equally "bad," as described by the bro. But I perceived it differently becos as Shakespeare said, "It is neither good nor bad but thinking makes it so." And I continued to smile at her n savour her delicious young body n pussy. In response to my positive body language n encouraging remarks, her attitude immediately improved, and so on n so forth. As for rushing, I was the one in a big hurry due to my tight schedule that day (see my FR on 17/7/08).
With RTFs, her service n attitude hv improved greatly, so much so that I experienced a wonderful time w/ her a few days ago. 100%GFE. I now could get from her everything I ever wanted from a woman (while practising safe sex)...
Could my explanations why LW has treated me so well be all wrong? Maybe for some unknown triggering or anchoring mechanism, at the subconscious level, she was intensely attracted to me the first time she saw me, hehe. That would really boost my ego as I'm more than twice her age n slightly shorter than she. BTW, I never bought her any gifts nor gave her any money other than the standard damage n very small tips. Sure, anything is possible but very unlikely.
Ur comments n criticisms will be appreciated.
Thx for reading n hv a great night!!