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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ
Boss Justime, please see my reply to you in red below:............................................ .............
Ah~~~this statement i used to use when i was on a budget and earning a salary, hence i can totally understand where you're coming from.
But then again, to some, its not ego, it's already a habit.
Just like some men go KTV wif 5 pax open only 1 bottle, while people like me, 2 pax go KTV also open 3 bottles, how has ego got to do wif this?
Bro, your statement to me la, has opened Pandora's Box!
Just like some like to BY a WL (NOT MISTRESS) for 10k while others claim they can BY one for 2k and proclaim the term BY
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I guess everyone has a different perspective. Perhaps a very charming man can BY a desirable gal for 2K...
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Originally Posted by leecs
Bro DOYOUBJ, you si be wu lui!!!  |
Translation: You're filthy rich!
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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ
Boh Jin Wu Lui, Dum Boh Nia
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Translation: Not very rich, only hv a little money.
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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ
Exactly exactly,..........
So, you spend wat you can afford and be happy can liao
People spend more than you, nothing to be envious or sour about.....
They spend more they happy oso can liao.....
Bottomline, you play yours they play theirs, end result happy can liao tio bo
人比人吓死人
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My Dear Mr. Austin,
Good advice!!
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Originally Posted by justime
Chill bro DYBJ, apologies if my statement rubbed you the wrong way. The hanging of sash is a personal viewpoint. If it had inadvertantly caused you offence, I am sorry...
Of course, we will invite the esteemed Lady LD over for this tate-a-tate session.
No Pandara's box but Singer/KTV WL's box okay?
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Hi bro justime,
May I invite myself to the party where I can meet both u n Mr. Austin under one roof?
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On this auspicious day, I like to express my profound gratitude to several gurus (frens) who called me, late last nite n early this AM, to give advice on issues re BY. Your candor n counseling r most appreciated. Thanks again to all of u!!
After much introspection, I realize what my fatal weakness is. I must improve my inner game which is extremely fragile. I know what I want n what I should do.
A strange thing has also happened in the last wk or so. The type of gal I like has evolved n changed. Absolute height is no longer important, as long as the gal is aesthetically pleasing to me n has very proportionate figure including her arms n legs. A shapely ass is still a must though.
Another attribute has gained much significance. I now prefer a gal who has intellect n higher educational level. Her ability to speak English is a plus. In other words, a gal who looks like a uni student n is smart enough n young enough to be one.
Everything being equal, I still prefer Fujian gals becos it's in my blood n genes (me being a 100% Fujian male).
On the issue of a piece of rented furniture vs. a collectible vase, I'll go w/ the flow n do what come naturally n let the chips fall where they may...
I'll try to enjoy the journey, the timeless n eternal present moment, one moment at a time, n not worry at all abt the outcome...
In the last 2 months, I hv also lost focus on many more important tasks in my life bcos chasing n BY-ing these SYTs hv taken too much time. This BY-ing thing should hv been, n from now onwards will be, a minor sideshow for me. Henceforth I will be a "one-woman man."
Ths for reading n hv a great day!!