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Originally Posted by bloody_vlahov
hi brother warbird,
true, true, self-confidence without the child-like arrogance is a big turn-on for these women. personally, i feel that self-confidence comes from life experiences, going through bad times without giving up, not buckling under pressure, and having the courage to move forward when there's a way backwards...the difference between self-confidence and arrogance is the wisdom to be humble and to understand the different shades of grey in the world
when you talk to the girls, the way you present yourself, in most cases, is a summary of the above-mentioned. sensitive and smart girls can smell the difference between a 'vase' and a man of substance. do not promise easily, do not flash your assets wantonly; a self-confident man need not show off his material assets. his best assets are his life experiences and confidence...
in reply to uhoo brother, any job that allows you exposure to different aspects of responsibilities is always good...to gain life experience and self-confidence, provided you don't get bankrupted by the experience (like i had on more than one occasion. i'm a huge huge risk-taker! risk is my aphrodisiac)
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Hi bro BV,
Ths for sharing ur insights. I agree w/ u 100% on every word u hv written.
Only life's great adversity n tribulations can reveal a man's true confidence n character.
Other attributes that r very sexy to women r dominance, formidable emotional control, courage, persistence, sense of humor n mystery. Women r very attracted to a man who defines authority for them. Risk-taking behaviour is also an aphrodisiac for the young ladies as well, hehehe. Now I know why you're so successful.
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This PM I met a 19yo PRC student HH, who was intro by a mutual fren, for possible BY. Prior to the meeting, I visualized only the positive happenings n outcome. I also repeated to myself that I'm the PRIZE, not the gal, n that she is very lucky to hv a chance to meet me...
I met HH at a hotel's lounge. She was tall, easily over 170, quite chio n cute, w/ voluptuous body. No makeup, very casually dressed n wearing a pair of slippers. She had proportionate head/torso/leg ratio. We ordered some drinks.
HH is a 2nd yr student at NUS, on a gahmen scholarship! She spoke very good S'pore English n excellent Beijing Mandarin. We had good rapport...she never worked at KTVs. Unattached currently but had been BAO-ed by a 老板 for over 6 months. I told her only a little abt myself, hehehe.
She also looked very young n fresh. I was gazing at her boobs (B), long legs n ample n perky ass (who says all PRC MMs hv flat butts?). I couldn't wait to eat her abalone
...so suggested that we go to a safe place now. She declined, saying that she had homework to do.
She asked how I could take care of her n wat were my requests. Of course her pussy would be exclusively mine. She told me how much she was getting from the towkay (quite reasonable damage to me). I asked her to name her conditions instead. She would let me know. Becos of her schooling n homework, she could meet the towkay only twice a wk.
I then moved to sit by her side. Started to caress her arm n back of the neck, then squeezed her firm ass...also whispered some words in her ear. I praised her big "talking" eyes n her firm n big butt. I told her I'm an ass man. Tried to kiss her but she moved her head away, not here, she said. A little frustrated, I told her I would need a test drive to see if we were compatible before making any long-term commitment...to my surprise she consented to meeting me very very soon in a safe place. She then wanted to know wat if we were incompatible. That would be unfortunate...I guess I'll buy her a small gift?
HH also knows a fren, a student at a private school who never worked at KTVs, who is being BAO-ed by another 老板. But I'm no towkay...that is OK as all I ever want n all I ever need is "unlimited" self-confidence, hahaha. And my newly-acquired ability to give a gal COS should help...everything else is secondary.
I get the sense that all PRC gals r very open-minded abt sex n BY. It's their culture. Are there any PRC gals in SIN n CN who dun want to be BAO-ed by a man? If there r any, I hv not met her yet.
Ths for reading n hv a great day!!
Bro WB