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Originally Posted by bonbonbebe
I'm really confused. I like him, but not love him.
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this is what gals always confuse themselve and also confuse the guys.
thich = like
yeu = love
to me, both are same. Don't confuse yourself.
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Originally Posted by bonbonbebe
And I dont think about money issue too.
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Its about inferiority. he is a cab driver working 12hour shift and taking home $2.5K on average. Hardly enough to survive in sillypore. You work in court and you are very knowledgeable.
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Originally Posted by bonbonbebe
He blamed on me to be a city gal with the materialism in gene  , never suffer the poverty blah blah blah.
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I guess he is looking for just an ordinary gal who can stay home, cook and take care of the house. Not someone who shop shop shop.
city gals... there is a lot in sillypore. You are no different from them.
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Originally Posted by bonbonbebe
Some days ago I asked him, do u like me, then he just changed the topic of the conversation.
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you never listen to a song "dung hoi vi sao anh yeu em" before?
guys don't like such question.
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Originally Posted by bonbonbebe
He told me about what he suffered in his life, etc. Of course I half believed, maybe he wants to trick me only. Until someday I think I fell into his trap n liked him.
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I guess he did really suffer in life. Working as a cab driver is not easy.
He is not tricking you.
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Originally Posted by bonbonbebe
Not consider about long term or marriage, even to a relationship I also feel worried. 进退两难 lah! Maybe he had put black magic on me!
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you believe black magic?
In relationship, there bonds to have 1 party loving the other more. The party who love more tends to feel insecure... you are the one now.
you are young and ambitious. He is 31 and if still single, he should be considering marriage now. If both of you don't match, please don't drag... can stay as friend.