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Old 13-11-2010, 01:12 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

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Originally Posted by jamezwit View Post
During initial meet up to know each other sessions, I usually start with hand holding and short kisses first couple of times when go out for dinner or movie. I confirm the baoying by saying that they need to get their place so that we can meet discreetly. Even then, only heavy petting but no sex, and once they get more comfortable, after the first love making session, hug and don't let go and they won't let go as well if you really show that you care about them.

So far, I only dropped the MY BY real fast becos she was two-timing, she got another BF who is away from SG a lot but she keep sending the guy emails/sms so I found out and dropped her. The rest all quite ok and the relationship last for a while and always parted way amicably and usually because they finished their work permit stay or study.

Only thing is the relationship can be too deep, and they feel lonely and since the way I prefer is to have feelings, so they sticky a bit. But I get great love making after being didn't meet for a few days or a week or two. I think it's win-win in my BY experience so far. Only thing is got to filter a bit and it takes effort and time to read the girl's mind and to show concern. Sometimes just words and a hug they will cry on your shoulder. I'm no handsome man, so I've to double or triple on the attention and the small things, like they appreciate you bring them to good eating place (no need high end stuff) and treating them with respect, since the young BY that can come to study (for real, not the KTV gals) or work as executive are pampered at home from young (one family one child), although they know that they need to adjust living on their own and doing their own household chores, they sometimes just felt lonely and the way younger generation of PRC from city is more open, had sex early and some had relationship with older man already in PRC. It's eye opening talking to them (only after they are comfortable to open up about this part of their life).

Cheers.
Wah lou, quite the romantic, as our Raptor Bro WB observes!! Looks like your dick-restraint at the start paid off handsomely.

Actually, I get the impression the RS type baoees like to look back at some period of courtship. They still reflect on my apparent self control at the start when chasing them (basically because I was either still going heavy on WLs and FBs or doing a retrograde action with the previous RS baoee whom I was about to replace with her, and fxxking away all the ammo knowing that the last bang was imminent!!!), innocently commenting fondly that 这么多时间过了, 我们才发生关系 (such a long time passed before we screwed). Of coz, nowadays, after so many marathon sessions, the RS sometimes starts to wonder suspiciously how I cope without her in between seeing her!!

A current under probation baoee was even pestering me to get "our own place" and bang there instead of doing a H81, saying that she was looking for nice long RS as my concubine and not just a ST girl. Managed to manoeuvre her out of that pipedream via the usual remedy: some good faith downpayment $$ and a first night bang at a 5-star hotel after a posh dinner.

IMHO a good thing about having a "courtship" is that we can size up how loyal the baoee can be, as one of the ego puncturing and anger inducing things is to find out like Bro Jamezwit about getting Julius Caesared, ie. stabbed in the back by a betrayal. However, if we keep the relationship purely for fxxks and not let KC get too much in the way, then it does not matter too much about telling her to take a hike, although the sayang thing is the loss of too much investment when the situation calls for getting the baoee fired too soon after making a $$ downpayment on her.

I must say that all the collective wisdom on baoees is quite an eye-opener and a helluva good source of picking up battle tactics. Happy baoing!