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Dear bro DO_YOU_BJ,

No offense taken at all.. I don’t see why it should be taken that way. I appreciate that you’re saying I should be careful not to be KC by this girl, if I read you correctly.

Before I decide to come out to play, I’m prepared that someone’s gonna get hurt… including myself. However, there cannot be no growth if I’m afraid of being hurt and shut myself up. So the best is to learn from you senior bros, thread carefully and minimizes any damage to all parties in the process.

I’m clear in my head that I’m not looking for any long-term relationship in this. What I would like to achieve is a certain level of self-mastery, in this game and more so in life. Spending lots of money on the girl to get sex is not what I had in mind. If she walks away, so be it… Hence, I’ll avoid bringing her to extravagant meals and drinks unless its for some special occasions only.


I admit my approach towards this thing has been rather immature thus far. I knew, not that I don’t… that I’m like a baby swimming with the big sharks here. Your topic of discussions are interesting while mine is noob and boring. But I have to be thick-skinned and jump in there cause how else can I learn?

I hope bros here will bear with me. I always appreciate your feedback as long as it’s well-intended, and not necessary what I want to hear. I’m serious about learning, not here to get validation.

Hence no offend at all, keep them coming.