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Originally Posted by teebs_darklord
I gather your gal is still working at the KTV. So she should be easily earning 5K/mth which would cover all her expenses here already. And you are probably giving her around 2K+/mth on average based on what you stated. Also you don't give her any shit which makes it a reasonably ok relationship for her.
Well, you should know how she feels about you. But since you have always maintained that this is a monetary transaction with her, most likely she doesn't want to leave you because you are another source of income for her.
Now my question is how would you feel if one day someone offers to BY her for 10K/mth and she accepts and that is the end of your relationship with her.  |
Yes bro, she still work in Havelock. And yes, I pay/spend on her thereabouts. But she averages $12K a month, including what I pay her. Their shelf life in the industry is very limited (and she's not a SYT anymore) and they know so they will try to earn as much in as short a time as possible. Don't ask me how I know she averages $12K/mth - I will tell you offline, but not here.
Yes, I always maintain that it is a monetary transaction because beneath all the “老公，亲爱的，宝贝”, money is still involved. And I don't mind paying her as long as the sex is still great. I don't want to take advantage of her and I don't want to be taken advantage of.
How would I feel if one day someone offers to BY her for 10K/mth and she accepts? Well, I would be happy for her. Seriously. But if she accepts to be BY for, say, $3K/mth, then I will be pissed - I will see it as she is charging me a premium.
Accepting someone's offer to be BY also doesn't mean end of our great sex. Last year, she was, in a way, BY by another guy who pays her a fixed monthly income (more than $5K/mth I think) on top of showering her with expensive gifts, handbags, pays for her course fees, fetch her to and from school. He, a bachelor, who had all the time in the world, thought she would be loyal to him and be a faithful gf to him. And despite he being in the KTV chionging scene for 18 long years, and knowing how these PRC KTV gals behave, still fell flat on his face - he was dumped by her after half a year. And for 2 months thereafter, stalked her. She had to spend that 2 months convincing him she has all along only treated him nothing more than a paying customer.
During that period when he thought she was his gf who only works at LV but not doing ST, we continued to have sex secretly. There was one night, we were happily pumping away in her house, the guy was in his car making phone calls parked outside her place. We could see his car. Sometimes, he will just stand downstairs to finish his ciggie.
The reason for her "infidelity"? He was lousy in bed. He usually cum within 2 minutes of penetration. I could make her cum many times and I can last way longer than him. At first, I don't believe the guy can be that bad and I always think, maybe she just want me to continue our relationship that’s why always sing praises to me but then, she doesn't really need to do all that right?
OK, that much I will disclose. It is because of all these things, I know I will never BY a gal unless I'm in a situation like Bro WB - I have both the time and money. I don't trust these gals unless she is with me 24/7 or unless the stakes are too high for her to "stray". The sex part shouldn't be a problem because if the chemistry is there, the sex will be good. If the sex is not good, then like what Bro WB say, dump her.