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Originally Posted by AvgJoe
Bro WB, very insightful thoughts here. Though I just joined, but i have been following this thread for months.
Learning from the experience and mistakes posted in this thread have allowed me to avoid the pitfalls other bros might encounter. Some great discussions as well which are thought provoking, and allows me to constantly reflect on my own thinking and behaviours
Looking forward to more good stuff from you, cheers and have a nice day
-Avg Joe
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Hi Bro Avg Joe,
I appreciate ur compliments. You make my day!
Pls also share ur experiences n expertise w/ us.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
My personal motto:
I'm improving myself, improving others n improving everything around me, constantly n relentlessly, in every way, every hr every day.
I hereby present my "Flow Chart" for attraction n success in every area of life.
Your Positive Belief System n Self Mastery ---> Positive Emotions ---> Pervasive Confidence ---> Positive Body Language n Actions (Regardless of What Happens n Under The Most Stressful Situations) ---> Attraction (n Success in Life)
Still worry abt ur looks, height, weight, age, status, etc when approaching a very chio gal of ur dream?
Remember this:
You're very attractive to beautiful women cuz You're very confident.
Another guru talks abt the importance of body language:
An estimated 67% to 93% of human communication
(according to university researchers) is non-verbal,
and your body language reveals your internal emotional
state. Whether someone's parents just died, or whether
they just got promoted to CEO... you can tell by
observing their body language.
So, as a man who tries to pick up and seduce women,
you should be mindful of what you're communicating
non-verbally.
Body language consists of the following:
- Your movements. They should be nonchalant, as if
you're so fabulously successful that there's rarely a
reason for you to rush nor try to impress anybody.
Move through the world doing what you want and
assuming that others will follow.
- The displacement of your body. Your arms and legs
should be spread out. Don't be afraid to take up space.
- Your voice. It should have a calm, soothing, and
commanding effect. Don't speak too fast or strain
your voice.
- Your face. Keep your facial muscles relaxed. Never
tense your jaw, and only rarely should you frown or
wrinkle your brow.
- Your shoulders. Keep them relaxed like they'd be
if you just got a massage. Don't raise them up like
a nervous person.
I would even go as far as to say that you body language
is more important than anything you say, because if
your body language doesn't match what you say, then
you won't succeed with women.
You see, if you tell a woman stories that convey your
confidence, but at the same time you slump over and
fold your arms, then you come across as fake.
I've picked up women before merely through the use of
my body language. For example, a couple months ago
I was at a coffee shop that I frequent, lounging on the
couch, arms spread out, with my feet up on the table.
The mindset I had was that I felt so comfortable that it
was as if I were in my home lounging on my own couch.
It was as if I owned the coffee shop.
The net result was that a girl sitting near me put down
her book and started engaging me in random small talk.
(Whenever an attractive girl you don't know starts a
random conversation with you, you should ALWAYS
assume that she's attracted to you. This is because
women generally won't risk the whole male-female
dynamic, especially with a stranger, unless they feel
attraction.)
The conversation went on for awhile, I got her number,
called her that night, and a few days later we met and
after several hours went to her place, where I spent the
night. (We finally had sex in the morning.)
The bottom line though is that she became initially
attracted to me and approached me because of my
body language.
Now, of course body language isn't enough. You also
must have an internal alpha male mindset that's consistent
with your body language.
But make no mistake about it... if your body language
conveys confidence, then your mood will also shift to
become more confident. And have you ever noticed
how when you walk with a spring in your step, you
feel more upbeat?
Conversely, when you cast your eyes down and drag
your feet, you feel depressed. So your mindset also
follows the body language that you adopt.
So, in conclusion, be an alpha male with your mindset
and your body language. Be in a woman's personal
space and be sexual and interested in her, but at the
same time don't be needy or desperate for her attention.
Just be comfortable and enjoy yourself.
And when your body language conveys that, it means you'll
later be comfortable and enjoying yourself... with the woman.
Cheers!
Bro WB