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Originally Posted by Big B
Heya!
I have deliberated on a key reason as to why it is difficult for men to learn emotional mastery.
The answer is drama series!! LOL
True love showcased in drama series are often sweet, dramatic & about selfless love. This has created unrealistic expectations in both males and females - especially so if both parties are young.
When a guy feels he has met the "chosen" one, he gives his all in the hopes his feelings will be reciprocated. This lack of self mastery ultimately, more often than not, results in a poor outcome..........................
On a brighter note, a gal told me last week she likes me more and more. My serious reply was: 喜欢我不能怪你.
The reply from her was: Remember to call me. - which I never did.
Cheers!
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Hi Bro Big B,
Ths so much for ur insights on emotional mastery n RS.
IMHO, when a man begins to treat his woman/wife/GF/mistress/er nai/lover as someone "very special" n puts her on a pedestal, she will lose respect n attraction for him n the RS will eventually fail. He must be dominant n be prepared to walk away when his boundaries r violated, even if he loves her. That is self mastery.
A man is very attractive n sexy cuz he is very confident n masculine (in character). Period. It's very difficult for a woman, regardless of how attractive she is, to leave such a man.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by chenzong
Interestingly, it is only after there were several times when I was ready to walk out of the relationship, despite the cost, that the marriage improved. We were able to discover what really works in our marriage, what we really want of each other.
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Good for u! If u were not ready to walk out, the RS would hv failed.
I'm beginning to believe male-female RS is an exact science...hahaha.
Cheers!
Bro WB