[Ken79]

the only way to have a mistress without any worries or fear of being exposed is when u have lots of $

im a sales manager in marine industry so i travel often, sees a lot of men and women from all walks of life.
some rich shipyard owner or vessel owners have 2 wives and almost all have mistress/gfs outside, so how to keep all these women happy is $, they wont leave u even u kick them.
even in indonesia if u want to buy each and every one of them a house, at least a car, each car a driver, many maids - 1 for cooking, 1-2 for cleaning, 1 for each kid, optional security guards, its an astronomical monthly expense.
so u really need a LOT of financial clout.

so for ppl like us, just go out play play on occasions but cannot have any strings or emotional ties attached, if not you either risk your family or u have to spend a lot of money to keep mouths shut.