Ex Lover... to reunite or not?

[biillionBill]

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Hello SBF cheongsters,

I'm dumbfounded. Perhaps you guys have encounter this situation before. I once have a crush on my ex boss. She is different race. She was married when I knew her. I left after 4 odd years working under her but didn't say anything about a crush towards her but inside always fantasize about doing it with her. I left because of difference in work opinion.

Then after 3 years we reunite again by chance and I learn that she has divorce her husband. Now I thought this is my chance. After few month of courtship and I feel she is really warm about me, I pop the big question. Unfortunately to find out she don't feel the same towards me

So we parted ways once more. She blocked me in all social media & almost all forms of communication. I was totally devastated. Until now I haven't fully recover.

And today she called my hp. I don't dare to pick up the call. I was afraid of old feelings cropping up again. So should I pick her call if she calls or totally ignore her forever? And why?

Thanks for the input.

[BearToy]

Sounds like you have nothing to lose, besides you don’t even know why she called you yet... might be completely unrelated to relationship...

[Babysharky]

Perhaps she wants to lure you out into buying insurance ? Haha
Just pick up the call.. you have nothing to loose .. keep us update on the outcome TS haha

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by Babysharky

Perhaps she wants to lure you out into buying insurance ? Haha
Just pick up the call.. you have nothing to loose .. keep us update on the outcome TS haha

insurance not so bad, if she starts the call with something about business opportunties, you will know it MLM hahaha

[jnj29]

She just won Toto. She want someone to share it with.

[secretlurker88]

pick up the call, or call her back!

[Babysharky]

Originally Posted by sexcision

insurance not so bad, if she starts the call with something about business opportunties, you will know it MLM hahaha

Or could be :” pai seh I press wrong number “ wanted to call blah blah ..
but in the end still the same .. insurance or MLM hahaha

[VoicesWithin]

I have a similiar experience. Got close to a lady. She was divorcing. Then we disconnected over some personal issues. She blocked me and i blocked her. I was downtrodden. 9 months later she re-surfaced. We unblocked each other. Then carried on from where we left. Sometimes women need time to reflect. They dont rush into things. Esp one who just left her husband. She may miss you. But it doesnt mean a blank cheque. Talk to her to see where it is going. You will regret it if you dont. For all you know, she may just need a favor like what all the bros are saying. All the best, and keep us updated

[CoolBlack]

Just call and ask what's up lor....maybe got good biz lobang or even maybe she has 2nd thoughts. You dont communicate you will never know......then you will regret the rest of your life

[ilovepantyhose]

bring her out to Din Tai Fung

and keep ordering 叉烧包 again and again

[myluckyguy]

i am also interested to know

[CyberRod]

The golden question is, what have you got to lose?

[GPRS]

Friend with benefits is the best

[Capricorn69]

You are in love with her or just want to fuck her ?

[seanylit]

Wait.. your definition of ex-lover is not correct !!!