Ask a retired SB/FL anything 😛

[Keima]

Merry Xmas.

Originally Posted by ponybabe

Interesting. I honestly prefer seeking arrangement.

Sugarbook keeps declining my account longtime back, and that was cause I refused to put a face photo! (or blur my face out)

Find them a lil shady lol.

But you do you, I hope you find the right one

Okay guys i'm done w all the replies lol I'm amaze this thread is surviving. I've not been logged in for like m-o-n-t-h-s.

Guess i'm not truly retired since I do it on-off for fun if any.

Alright ciao!

[alicialow09ww]

Originally Posted by ponybabe

1 and 2. Hmmm, I started off never needing the money so I'm not the best position to comment on this.

I think relying on FL is dangerous because it makes you think money is easily earned, and on a product that declines in value with age. It'd be better off if shes upgrading herself or pursuing a better career that has more long term view?

Also i'm really not the best person to advise cause i've not earned the most like the other escorts / full time FL. I also prefer to be a SB instead of FL where i could see just 1 guy throughout. I also reject clients i do not see a fit (can't get excited or horny for him), and as a result my earning income while high is definitely not.. frequent (i only do max 1 a day if i do it), and generally money was my last concern.

If anything, i'd tell the one who wants to buy lame things on 2 to not waste her efforts on these.

3. HAHAHAHA abalone become black black?

Does your dick rot after cheonging say 20 girls a year? I doubt it

Pussy's still intact, tight, and fucking wet most of the time.
No, it doesn't turn black black, but.. maybe your brain does.

4. Surprisingly my value went up as i grew older.

Maybe cause its a supply and demand thing?
Knowing how to handle people better?

Maybe cause i started out with no agent and didnt have the right "price?" back then?

To be fair the early period i did it, the price was below market rate. I guess i discover more as i go ahead. Took a few years break in between everytime i got attached and committed.

So.. With time i'd rather focus on my career which also made little sense to take a FL job unless.. it pays.

And right now there simply isn't much of a point to do FL.
Other than if I was horny lonely and all. Which is why perhaps being a SB always appealed to me a lil more then being an FL.

But to be fair, do i count myself as a FL considering the little clients i did over the years?

Girl who do freelance will always be lured by the easy money whether they believe they get hooked or not.

It is like the gambler that say they are not hooked to gambling. Do you believe him?

Not needing the money does not mean you are not hooked to the easy money due to fl money

All your relationship you will feel unsatisfied because you remember how the previous 'relationship' has money to be earned and benefits attached to it and suddenly there is no benefits to be gotten in a stable relationship.

Your mind will keep remembering those benefits with those relationship. That why your relationship will never bear fruits at all.

I am not hating you by saying this. I have friends who do FL who found relationship unsatisfying and they are in the same position as you who initially do not need money but hooked to the possibility of earning money from a relationship previously. All their relationship don't last and they are back to doing freelance

[CumExplorer]

Originally Posted by ponybabe

Interesting. I honestly prefer seeking arrangement.

Sugarbook keeps declining my account longtime back, and that was cause I refused to put a face photo! (or blur my face out)

Find them a lil shady lol.

But you do you, I hope you find the right one

Okay guys i'm done w all the replies lol I'm amaze this thread is surviving. I've not been logged in for like m-o-n-t-h-s.

Guess i'm not truly retired since I do it on-off for fun if any.

Alright ciao!

Happy new year babe.

You on-off for FL or SB ? Enjoy and have fun

[CumExplorer]

Originally Posted by alicialow09ww

I am not hating you by saying this. I have friends who do FL who found relationship unsatisfying and they are in the same position as you who initially do not need money but hooked to the possibility of earning money from a relationship previously. All their relationship don't last and they are back to doing freelance

one day FL/SB always FL/SB

[ponybabe]

Originally Posted by alicialow09ww

Girl who do freelance will always be lured by the easy money whether they believe they get hooked or not.

It is like the gambler that say they are not hooked to gambling. Do you believe him?

Not needing the money does not mean you are not hooked to the easy money due to fl money

All your relationship you will feel unsatisfied because you remember how the previous 'relationship' has money to be earned and benefits attached to it and suddenly there is no benefits to be gotten in a stable relationship.

Your mind will keep remembering those benefits with those relationship. That why your relationship will never bear fruits at all.

I am not hating you by saying this. I have friends who do FL who found relationship unsatisfying and they are in the same position as you who initially do not need money but hooked to the possibility of earning money from a relationship previously. All their relationship don't last and they are back to doing freelance

No hate, don't be silly! You're entitled to your opinion as much as I'm entitled to mine

I get that the possibility of earning (more) money is always there and round the corner. Have stopped FL/SB previously when I was in a r/s for a few years, so yes, it is true (and possible) to entirely stop.

But to be fair, I wasn't full time so I haven't be able to "reap maximum potential" from this trade to be tempted!

Also, holding a full time job means that more days than ever you're tired aft work and would decline offers. I've heard of girls earning 5 digits a month through this, and all along I've been happy with sticking to 1 SD, or on off FL if i didn't have a SD.

So its < half of the low 5 figures, not much is missed

[ponybabe]

Originally Posted by funboi

You know soldiers go war then they kana left right center and back so suffer PTSD and they don't ever wana think war again. So if got FL kana their trade PTSD, likely they also will never want sex again. The moment they see a penis they probably machiam see ghost.

HAHAHAHA omg may that never happen to me.

Sex should be enjoyed by both parties

[benz]

Would like to add, sex and company should be enjoyed by both parties

[alicialow09ww]

Originally Posted by ponybabe

No hate, don't be silly! You're entitled to your opinion as much as I'm entitled to mine

I get that the possibility of earning (more) money is always there and round the corner. Have stopped FL/SB previously when I was in a r/s for a few years, so yes, it is true (and possible) to entirely stop.

But to be fair, I wasn't full time so I haven't be able to "reap maximum potential" from this trade to be tempted!

Also, holding a full time job means that more days than ever you're tired aft work and would decline offers. I've heard of girls earning 5 digits a month through this, and all along I've been happy with sticking to 1 SD, or on off FL if i didn't have a SD.

So its < half of the low 5 figures, not much is missed

But your recent posts about Sugarbook Registration seem to tell me otherwise though, not stalking you or anything.

We are all Human and we always have memories. So to be frank, it is good that you can entirely stop, and saying that you are not really doing full time is just a way to 'justify' that it is still alright to do fl as there are no full commitments; but this form of justification seems to be very alluring especially to those who wanted to do fl and have a false sense of 'self-assurance' into thinking they are not really hooked to that easy money

Like I mentioned in my quote earlier, a gambler will never think they are hooked to gambling.

So I don't really think you are 'retired SB/FL' ,not for long I guess.

[Apollo]

Originally Posted by ponybabe

Also, holding a full time job means that more days than ever you're tired aft work and would decline offers. I've heard of girls earning 5 digits a month through this, and all along I've been happy with sticking to 1 SD, or on off FL if i didn't have a SD.

So its < half of the low 5 figures, not much is missed

sis u still on-off FL now? Happy new year 2021

[specsbored]

Originally Posted by ponybabe

Hi friends! Disappeared for awhile cause pony here started dating, before throwing in the towel again (lol). I thinking dating is really not my thing, and kinda wandered into a one off FL lol. Story for another day alright.

That said, i think 5-8k is unrealistic cause thats what a normal job pays where you commit 5 days a week, 9 to 6

I'd like to think that 2-3k a month, with flexi 4-6 meetups are reasonable because we typically wouldn't want to time our meetings don't we?

I get that it'd be expensive to some, and it'd be reasonable to some.

Kinda like how some people wanna eat fish at cai png store and willing to pay ok. You do you!

Willing buyer willing seller. Pretty sure if you're genuine that'd be takers for SB. Every girl likes to be pampered

Hey Ponybabe

Welcome back and Happy New Year! Sorry to hear about your dating experience. Ive been busy and MIA for quite some time too! Not due to dating (unfortunately) but studies

[ponybabe]

Hi love, that was very long back and also due to their ads with YouTubers. I still find them fishy 😂 Because no genuine sg girl would wanna put her face big big without masking over anything.

That said yes, doing Fl or being a SB is alluring in its ways. It gives you confidence if you lack, assurance on being wanted and also pamper you w nice things w the money that comes along w it.

There is no right or wrong, just live w every consequence of decisions we make!

Here's a happy 2021 to everyone 🥳

Originally Posted by alicialow09ww

But your recent posts about Sugarbook Registration seem to tell me otherwise though, not stalking you or anything.

We are all Human and we always have memories. So to be frank, it is good that you can entirely stop, and saying that you are not really doing full time is just a way to 'justify' that it is still alright to do fl as there are no full commitments; but this form of justification seems to be very alluring especially to those who wanted to do fl and have a false sense of 'self-assurance' into thinking they are not really hooked to that easy money

Like I mentioned in my quote earlier, a gambler will never think they are hooked to gambling.

So I don't really think you are 'retired SB/FL' ,not for long I guess.

[ponybabe]

Originally Posted by specsbored

Hey Ponybabe

Welcome back and Happy New Year! Sorry to hear about your dating experience. Ive been busy and MIA for quite some time too! Not due to dating (unfortunately) but studies

Hello! Hahahah it's alright to throw in the towel if it's not suitable. Better than time wasted 😌

Please study hard and get into the MA programs, these days they pay well ✌🏻

[benz]

Right or wrong depends on your perspective. I think one has to be responsible for one's action and put the blame on others or society.

Originally Posted by ponybabe

Hi love, that was very long back and also due to their ads with YouTubers. I still find them fishy 😂 Because no genuine sg girl would wanna put her face big big without masking over anything.

That said yes, doing Fl or being a SB is alluring in its ways. It gives you confidence if you lack, assurance on being wanted and also pamper you w nice things w the money that comes along w it.

There is no right or wrong, just live w every consequence of decisions we make!

Here's a happy 2021 to everyone 🥳

[specsbored]

Originally Posted by ponybabe

Hello! Hahahah it's alright to throw in the towel if it's not suitable. Better than time wasted 😌

Please study hard and get into the MA programs, these days they pay well ✌🏻

Hey Ponybabe

Great to know u r alright then!

When you say MA you mean Masters? "Pay well" hmm roughly how much per month?

I'm doing a degree currently and its already draining enough ��.

I'm still on break �� but studies resume next week ;(

[wolfy]

Basic degree these days not worth much unless you have relevant experience in niche fields or "connections"