FWB qn

[Alson15]

Sounds like a flex but used to have. Got a slightly plump but pretty girl in school who rubbed her boobs on my back while watching me play psp in front of my classmates. Only i knew what she was doing. Took the opportunity to ask her about it after class. Progressed to sext and meet up for fake project at her house. Stopped after we graduated.

In my situation no money spent at all. Good times.

[r.fowler]

never really calculate... Meals, hotels, occasionally gifts, go for couple massages etc... depending how often i meet her. per meet up around 100ish to 200.

[jien1]

Originally Posted by HeLovesMe

What if female FWB gives you expensive gifts as a token of appreciation?

I gave my guy Xmas and CNY gifts that cost almost $200 yet he gave me $20 Hongbao and no foreplay/French kisses.

I will give you foreplay/french kisses and no $20, ok a sis?

[huffnpuff]

We go dutch. Even hotel also split.

[HeLovesMe]

Originally Posted by jien1

I will give you foreplay/french kisses and no $20, ok a sis?

If you are a freeloader, people will avoid you!
If your female FWB is a freeloader, it is bad for you!
Nothing is free in the world!

[HeLovesMe]

Originally Posted by abcitbats

you start to get serious on him, isn't?

Nope..
Think he completely forgot our agreement: if he pampers me more, I will pamper him in return as well as give him TLC he needs most.

[Qwerty_Again]

I think TS got the wrong idea on FWB, I mean if you need to pay for FWB then it’s not really different from prostitution or being a SD?

Just my 2c...

[Aroithai69]

Originally Posted by vdusty

those with FWB, how much do you spent on her to maintain the relationship monthly?

make her like you and pay for everything..

[Sorbxe]

Originally Posted by abcitbats

you start to get serious on him, isn't?

Hope not! He sounds like a scammer. Just stop giving him any presents. Especially if he asks for anything. No need say anything. He will get the hint.

Never fall for him and agree to any small request to buy stuff for him, it will slowly progress to larger things and small to larger loans..

[Sorbxe]

Originally Posted by HeLovesMe

Nope..
Think he completely forgot our agreement: if he pampers me more, I will pamper him in return as well as give him TLC he needs most.

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Did he ask you to buy stuff? Did he want material pampering? Or agree to give you material pampering (like SB) so that you give GFE and TLC in exchange?

Maybe he doesn’t want you to pamper him more and wants just pure FWB and not anything too serious. Maybe he hopes you will eventually find your own true love and not intend to string you along?

If he’s the type to say ILY and any sweet nothings in order to get u in bed then u should avoid. But if both get the endorphins up and get something’s out of it. He did not make you pay for food, room or other entertainment like movies or going places. And you chose to buy stuff. The choice is yours.

If u haven’t gotten serious and he’s not super handsome or gives you super sex. Then why bother to buy presents? Just give or take what is fair lah!

[Sorbxe]

Originally Posted by huffnpuff

We go dutch. Even hotel also split.

Envy!

Originally Posted by Aroithai69

make her like you and pay for everything..

Sounds like her man and HeDoesNotLove:

Originally Posted by HeLovesMe

If you are a freeloader, people will avoid you!
If your female FWB is a freeloader, it is bad for you!
Nothing is free in the world!

then huffnpuff’s way is the best. No one feels indebted to the other right?

[Lemonjuice]

Want to find an attached fwb..
Where to start

[HeLovesMe]

Originally Posted by huffnpuff

We go dutch. Even hotel also split.

Maybe your next FWB will be lousy in case your current FWB meets her new guy. Good things in life are short lived!

Great FWB relationships require reciprocation of all ways like 2 ways communications, sex, mutual understanding, transparency etc that create positive outcomes.

Female FWBs with princess attitude who expect guys to pay for everything, pamper them and give them foreplay are not worth the time and good relationships. Their guys will never receive appreciation gifts from such females.

[HeLovesMe]

Originally Posted by Sorbxe

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Did he ask you to buy stuff? Did he want material pampering? Or agree to give you material pampering (like SB) so that you give GFE and TLC in exchange?

Maybe he doesn’t want you to pamper him more and wants just pure FWB and not anything too serious. Maybe he hopes you will eventually find your own true love and not intend to string you along?

If he’s the type to say ILY and any sweet nothings in order to get u in bed then u should avoid. But if both get the endorphins up and get something’s out of it. He did not make you pay for food, room or other entertainment like movies or going places. And you chose to buy stuff. The choice is yours.

If u haven’t gotten serious and he’s not super handsome or gives you super sex. Then why bother to buy presents? Just give or take what is fair lah!

Nope. My guy never asked me to buy material things from start except harped on reciprocation before our first meet up.

I am not in love with him as I never regard him as husband/BF material. He should love me as my nickname! Just miss him being crazy about me as he makes me feel like little girl in bed. This innocent feeling is really short lived in every woman’s life. Must enjoy this feeling before it was gone for good.

True love can change over time! Today’s humans should not pin hopes on true love.
I already understood that our relationship will never lead to marriage as I am not interested in marrying him or breaking up his family!

He used to give me shiok sex until another woman’s saliva via BJ ruined his didi performance due to her breast cancer cells. Haizzz..

Not giving him gifts daily. Only 2-3 times a year. I pity him cos his wife never noticed his worn out things and people judge him by clothes and things. Think my mission should be done by this year.