Guilt.

hellosunshine · #1 22-10-2012, 01:24 AM

Hi, have been lurking around this forum without an account for quite awhile until recently. I got questions to ask bros here.

Do you all feel any guilt when tou chi outside when you are attached/married? How do you deal/face with it?

Currently I have a gf that is of 2 years but somehow somewhere deep inside me i feel like stepping into this world that everyone is discussing here but i know im doing wrong to my gf

so how? Anyway to me i'm not trying to f around and visit FL, maybe just massage center with specials to have a try only but the guilt is already eating me up slowly even though i have not try :X

Curiosity kills the cat

(anyway if possible can up my points? not sure how the system works, seems like everyone need high points to have some credibility

the higher the better lol.)

see see only · #2 22-10-2012, 11:09 AM

No problem TS ...

If you have a time machine ... then your problem will be solved

Just time travel to 10 years later and secretly take a look at yourself at that stage ..... you will then get the answer now ...

IF NOT ... go do what you want in life when you're still young (safely) and experience it ..... time will answer your above question .... As different ppl will have different opinion about your question.

BUT most important is your opinion that matters to yourself

tuaNehBu · #3 22-10-2012, 11:29 AM

ts since u are not married.... just attached.... try everything under the sun....

then call it quits and settle down.... be loyal to your wife...

at least u will die without regrets then!!!!

<<totally>> · #4 22-10-2012, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by hellosunshine

Curiosity kills the cat

Yes indeed. However if you did find out already, how come you still continued going?

Shiok right? The greed for lust had overcome you. Learn how to control your desires and you will be fine.

Guilt later? It is all about how you define what are the things that you will feel guilty about. Once you change that list, looked back once again, guilty will not be in sight anymore.

The more you see, the less guilty you will be. The world is so big for you to explore, that type of kachang puteh issue do not worth any attention at all.

Either you be a monk and stay to your gf and stop sulking and whining. Or welcome to the dark side.

Max77 · #5 22-10-2012, 02:03 PM

I rather feel guilty then sorry for myself

<<totally>> · #6 22-10-2012, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Max77

I rather feel guilty then sorry for myself

Haha. You are from the dark side leh. Of course you say that.

HCKing · #7 22-10-2012, 02:44 PM

i felt more guilty when i see a chiobu in a HC but failed to up her.

esssinine · #8 22-10-2012, 03:01 PM

Cheong dont scared , scared dont cheong

ahtat77 · #9 22-10-2012, 03:22 PM

i will not feel guilty for visiting FL but i'll be afraid of getting caught by my gf

Austere · #10 22-10-2012, 09:47 PM

Is it cause you bored of your girl friend ?

If you really love her, 2 years liao, can marry liao. If you unsure, Maybe you shldnt pay for services, you should jitao find new partner.

Any way, You guilty coz you love her ? Marry her la . If she cannot satisfy you sexually, Talk to her, but DONT EVER TELL HER YOU TOU CHI.

Maybe she will become a tiger and eat you on bed. Women in love do anything for their men

<<totally>> · #11 22-10-2012, 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by esssinine

Cheong dont scared , scared dont cheong

Quote:

Originally Posted by ahtat77

i will not feel guilty for visiting FL but i'll be afraid of getting caught by my gf

This is for brothers whose frequency is once per 1-2 days. The best time to chiong will be within the next 12 hrs after your session with GF, so that when you are required to pay water bill. She will not be able to smell anything fishy.

Only the experts will be able to understand. Lolz.